JUST BE YOURSELF

(you are who you are and what you are by what you think about yourself)

Life is a very complex thing: it has diverse definitions. It involves all things created by the Almighty - not only the living things, but also the nonliving - which must live and interact together, despite their variance in character. Amongst these creatures are human beings who, although are the same in physical structure, have different ionic characteristics. Ionic characteristics of human beings, as defines by Sir Lord Laborgem, are those traits that emerge mostly when human beings are acting without their minds, that is when they are mostly unconscious. Therefore since human beings are different from one another and since they must all live and interact together, conflicts and fightings cannot but occur.

Human beings are social creatures, just like most of other organisms such as the ants, bees, apes, wild animals and so on, of very finite listing. We are made too social that we can decide who to please, when to please them and by what means we please them. But then, situational occurences have revealed on a very large scale how human beings try to please everyone, forgetting that sovereign fact of the economists that we humans are highly insatiable. Professor Likel Jenkison (1902-1961) said, "You'll give your mind unrest by putting everyone in a state of liking you, for the more they prise your presence, the more they slander your absence". Sir Walter De la'Maire also said, "Please everyone and please no one". The question is, "how then do we go about this life, pleasing everyone and hurting no one?"

Imagine yourself existing in a world of your own, gettiing to meet another person in a world of his/her own. Both of you decide to come together in a bigger world-world of our own. Since no one is perfect, you cannot by any means do without hurting the feelings one of another, probably by liking different things. Nevertheless, as long as your mind tells you that you are on the right path, you just have to be yourself and believe in yourself. That friend of yours will get to reason with you as the days go by. But if you ever falter on your own will to do the right and take up the wrong piece of advice, your friend will be the first person to put the blame on you.

Remeber, you cannot please everyone, according to the adage which says that what faces you surely backsides someone else. Therefore, be yourself and just believe in yourself. Take advice, but be concrete , solid and resolute in your decision, and get all the necessary feedbacks to boost the amplitude and the modulation of your input, the resultant of which will be an exponentially solved output! Be yourself and do the right. Though everyone around you do not see things the way you do, stand on your toes. What goes aroumd comes around. Work on your dreams, and achieve. You are where you are because of your past decisions, and not because of what someone else decided for you-that's why we are humans. Whatever you do today is a reflection of what you have done in the past and a refraction of what you are going to do in the nearest future. Therefore, live to fend to blend the end! Set rules for yorself and trust in God and in yourself. You are who you are and what you are by what you think and not your feelings.

Just be yourself.



Piece written by: van fakfil clark.FACEBOOK.COM

SAVING FOR THE RAINING DAY

Every action and activity in which man engages are very effective on his life-either constructive or destructive.

Every obstacles man comes across is neither constructive nor destructive to his life. If he ovewrcomes the obstacle, it only opens the door for more of complex obstacles to find their ways in, and if he does not overcome the obstacle, he remains in his wretched disposition until GOD-KNOWS-WHEN.

Obstacles are the challenges that come the way of an individual, that pose like a big mountain and create fear and fright within him, and use the instilled fright as a tool to oppose him from reaching his goal.

These obstacles come in different forms for different people. For a student, it may be financial. For a government policy. For a church or a mosque, it may be Satan. These are few samples of the forms in which obstacles may appear, and most of the time, we are the ones responsible for their access to our lives.

(To be continued)

TACKLING CORRUPTION IN NIGERIA: Corruption is an economic disease which uninvitedly penetrates a society as a result of ready minds wanting to get rich quickly. It's usually a gross product of poverty. If we're to place an average Nigerian on a test of leadership over a society for a particular period of time,he is sure t ghastly fall and fail because of what he is possibly going to do. No one can totally excuse himself from the guilt of corruption,for as it is,it is deadlier than any poisons ever known. Corruption,being a silent killer,slowly kills the human conscience to total silence. A man without a conscience is as good as dead. When corruption is being made mention of,many minds race down the lane of employments versus bribery,thinking straight towards an economic tool (money). This is virtually a sarcastical error as corruption comes in different forms and by different means. The Nigerian security,agricultural sector,educational system,health care sector,information sector,legistlative sector amongst others are the primary stages of corruption while the general masses are no exception to the matter. It comes through bribery,request for sexual intercourse in exchange for helps and offers,banks diverting some minute amount of money from different accounts to a separate one,lecturers aiding students out because of sentimental attachments and gains,and the list unending. It would hence be clearly figured out at this junction,that no one can possible claim to know all about corruption,nor ignorance of the reality of the concept. Ask a child on an errand and watch him refuse. Promise him a cup of tea on his return and check his reaction. Send him such errands in subsequent times and see what he's going to do. It's in the blood,in the system. The problem is that it cannot be totally eradicated,for whilst some individuals and groups of people are busy finding out how to build a mast,others are looking for the fall of the builders. However,it is possible to control corruption. This can be achieved by individuals deliberately putting up ideas,which will be brought together and reviewed by fellow concerned Nigerians with some sense of responsibility. Together we stand,divided we fall. Two heads are better than one. Let's all work together to make this country a corrupt free one,and we'll live to see brighter days and more.

Listening To Musics

         In the real sense of it all, it would be discovered how that many of today's musicians just combine two or three lines together with a church tone and call it a hip up. Many who are celebrated really ought to go to schools to learn the concept of music. The reason why this ruse is yet uncovered is because many listeners do not get out what kinds of music we have, and best examples including those ones good for them.
         On the other hand, many people do not listen to music because they feel like they have not got the time for it,. It has been discovered that listening to music, most importantly classical musics, are really worth listening it. This is because of the smartening and relieving effect they pose onto the brain. You will listen to some songs and go to sleep thereafter. It is because the brain has been impacted upon by that music in an extra ordinary way.
         However, listen to musics to the point of remembering every line, for you do your brain more good by doing this. This is because you are a social being, and the more you are able to carry your peers along with what you know, the more smarter and bolder you become.
        Songs like West Life albums and those of Sean Kingston and 50 cent are the best for West Africans.

AND SO SHALL IT BE! by Temitayor Clark Van-FakFil on Wednesday, September 7, 2011 at 11:22pm

All things seem so exciting,
As though they'll remain lasting.
Such things chase off athirsting,
That throats dry feel so thanking,
Not wisting what might happen
In days life will sub-sharpen!

But lo,it gets aflapen,
As if nothing will straighten!
All things seem so exciting,
Such things chase off athirsting,
Not wisting what might happen,
But lo,it gets aflapen!

Behold,the age is sprawling,
When deeds shall draw to garden-
When profits shall be written,
And golds and crowd be slighting!

And so shall it be raining,
And rain and sail and craving!
Good deeds shall be birds flying,
Err deeds shall be birds dropping,
And loads of life shall glory,
Being light or of weights heavy-
So light and drawn to heaven,
So heavy,burnt,not dying!

And so shall it be flaming,
In heats and fires not quenching,
In worms and cracks not dying
And punishment not waiting,
In sighs and wails and weeping
To do justice on sinning!

And so shall it be shining,
In houses not afflicting,
And streets of gold not crumbling,
And music everlasting!

It's personal deciding
If flame or shine is pending!

By: Temitayor Van_Fak*Fil Clark.

GOOD MORNING, HOW ARE YOU?

Good morning, how are you,

My beloved sweet heart.

I know you're really fine,

For 'twill gladden my heart.

But if you say,'oh nought',

Then would my heart be sad,

For my sweet heart is sad,

And why should I be glad?

I know thou shalt reply,

'My sweet heart, I am fine!'

Oh, Come on, let us play,

And let the people say,

'Two lovers in the field,

Looking for where they'll shield!'

Oh, my love, do not mind,www.facebook.com/fakfil

But let them their love find,

For 'tis really so good,

That I've not been a fool,

To say that you're not good;

GOOD MORNING, HOW ARE YOU?

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