(you are who you are and what you are by what you think about yourself)
Life is a very complex thing: it has diverse
definitions. It involves all things created by the Almighty - not only
the living things, but also the nonliving - which must live and interact
together, despite their variance in character. Amongst these creatures
are human beings who, although are the same in physical structure, have
different ionic characteristics. Ionic characteristics of human beings,
as defines by Sir Lord Laborgem, are those traits that emerge mostly
when human beings are acting without their minds, that is when they are
mostly unconscious. Therefore since human beings are different from one
another and since they must all live and interact together, conflicts
and fightings cannot but occur.
Human beings are social creatures, just like most of
other organisms such as the ants, bees, apes, wild animals and so on, of
very finite listing. We are made too social that we can decide who to
please, when to please them and by what means we please them. But then,
situational occurences have revealed on a very large scale how human
beings try to please everyone, forgetting that sovereign fact of the
economists that we humans are highly insatiable. Professor Likel
Jenkison (1902-1961) said, "You'll give your mind unrest by putting
everyone in a state of liking you, for the more they prise your
presence, the more they slander your absence". Sir Walter De la'Maire
also said, "Please everyone and please no one". The question is, "how
then do we go about this life, pleasing everyone and hurting no one?"
Imagine yourself existing in a world of your own,
gettiing to meet another person in a world of his/her own. Both of you
decide to come together in a bigger world-world of our own. Since no one
is perfect, you cannot by any means do without hurting the feelings one
of another, probably by liking different things. Nevertheless, as long
as your mind tells you that you are on the right path, you just have to
be yourself and believe in yourself. That friend of yours will get to
reason with you as the days go by. But if you ever falter on your own
will to do the right and take up the wrong piece of advice, your friend
will be the first person to put the blame on you.
Remeber, you cannot please everyone, according to the
adage which says that what faces you surely backsides someone else.
Therefore, be yourself and just believe in yourself. Take advice, but be
concrete , solid and resolute in your decision, and get all the
necessary feedbacks to boost the amplitude and the modulation of your
input, the resultant of which will be an exponentially solved output! Be
yourself and do the right. Though everyone around you do not see things
the way you do, stand on your toes. What goes aroumd comes around. Work
on your dreams, and achieve. You are where you are because of your past
decisions, and not because of what someone else decided for you-that's
why we are humans. Whatever you do today is a reflection of what you
have done in the past and a refraction of what you are going to do in
the nearest future. Therefore, live to fend to blend the end! Set rules
for yorself and trust in God and in yourself. You are who you are and
what you are by what you think and not your feelings.
Just be yourself.
Piece written by: van fakfil clark.
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